Social phobia and other problems (1 of 2)


Here i talk about all the problems i have. Including: social anxiety disorder, memory problems, passing out, and death/cutting.

anxiety, cutting, death, memory, out, passing, phobia, problems, social

  1. #1 by SuperSofies on June 4th, 2009

    ive got social phobia / anxiety or whatever, an its horribul

  2. #2 by crowley201 on June 6th, 2009

    I feel your pain. Social Phobia is totally ruining my life as well. Because f it, I rarely experience new things or indulge in conversations with people including my family. I’m not in school anymore and I kinda wish I still am since I’ve rarely left my house for 2 years. I just sat around and play my video games too.lol

  3. #3 by acmgirl21 on June 8th, 2009

    child protective services

  4. #4 by acmgirl21 on June 8th, 2009

    I feel the same way. I was so shy in highschool and after, i didn’t want to stay in touch with the people i used to hang around with all the time.they try to get in touch with me but i avoid them. I’m currently working someplace where i’m the only girl at night with a group of obnoxious men and they tease me a lot.i understand, i’m the new girl, but it’s terrifying having all the attention on me. i just want to run away,it’s hard to think of the proper responses to their questions.

  5. #5 by acmgirl21 on June 8th, 2009

    that was for the dude asking about the meaning of cps

  6. #6 by JustxAnotherxCut on June 12th, 2009

    oh rite thanks. In the UK we just call it social services

  7. #7 by LYNXVAL on June 20th, 2009

    That happened to my son when he was 5 and he was held down and that is not right! i hear your cocktail! my Brother has those too. My son had alot of trouble in school too.

  8. #8 by CROMPTON761 on June 22nd, 2009

    I can totally relate to the part of people being older, or higher rank, I work in an office environment and at times I feel helpless, I can also relate back to school presentations too. I’ve never seen a Doctor about this, I deny its not happening.

  9. #9 by jackbornin1992 on July 5th, 2009

    i think you really need to get off the comp making videos!no offence personally fired at you here but the internet for ppl with SA/shyness is that people search for people they can relate to because they cant easily in real life. so they join FB groups, youtube friends ect and connect about how awful it is. this then makes them dependent on it and the negativity together doubles like “i cant do it ill never change” also they brand themselves as a group, like this is how we are forever. not true!

  10. #10 by lyrical2008 on July 12th, 2009

    you’re beutiful :) i really mean that! I’m so glad you’ve posted this as well its really good to know that theres people out there who are going through the same thing, I start feeling really anxious in social situations and i find it difficult to talk to people that iv known for my whole life, i’ve looked up something called neural and cognitive therapy, its about changing the way your mind reacts to social situations i’m going to start doing it asap.

  11. #11 by lyrical2008 on July 12th, 2009

    I’m not sure if you’ve heard of it or tried it before, maybe its something you could try if you have’nt :) The way i’m dealing with it at the moment is just trying to think positive and making myself realise that all these negative beliefs I have of myself are false also repeatedly telling myself that theres alot of people out there thats willing to give me chance. I’m only 19 and I can tell that your worth so much more than you give yourself credit for! If you want to talk please send

  12. #12 by lyrical2008 on July 12th, 2009

    me a private message it would be really cool to talk to someone who’s going through the same thing. You don’t have to don’t my sincerity or worry about how I might judge you if you want to talk I’m goin through the same thing and I know exactly what it feels like! :) Anyway i really hope you read this, best wishes, Theo :) x

  13. #13 by Lilcutegrl93 on July 12th, 2009

    jackborin1992 I don’t think you understand how affective and difficult social anxiety is.

    It’s a mental thing. Any mental disorder where you put these thoughts in your head that eventually stay there and become reality to you is hard to live through. It’s not something that you snap out of overnight.
    What sucks about social phobia is it’s even harder to be confrontational about it. Lucky for me I have one person who I can talk to it about.

  14. #14 by jackbornin1992 on July 15th, 2009

    ok firstly i sent this to a lot of videos and not just this one.
    have a look at your inbox :)

  15. #15 by jackbornin1992 on July 15th, 2009

    the only reason why this comment has so many thumbs down is because the truth hurts! ive been throuhg most of the SA sites imagineable and they are nothing but bacteria growing! trust me and if you dont belive me then thats fine by me-carry on rotting away in front of your computer screens :D

    again, not aiming this at bishi4me i sent this to a lot of other videos to try and get the message across.

  16. #16 by lyrical2008 on July 16th, 2009

    Your out of order, who are you to comment on something that you don’t understand. Some people with social anxiety find it difficult to even leave there house, the only social contact they can get is through this…you’ve seen all the comments giving positive support. This is a way for people with this kind of problem to communicate with each other and let each other know that anyone whos got this isn’t alone. I think you need to keep your opinions to yourself!

  17. #17 by jackbornin1992 on July 16th, 2009

    i do understand it.ive had it since the age of 12 have been the quietest kid you would meet and in may i actualyl got help. so dont tell me im out of order.if theyr scared to leave the house is the internet a better option than actually getting help?work it out the only ’support’ i see is people saying they understand how they feel, reinforcing the negativity. and your sentence about communicating together, i did that for6 months the biggest waste of time and if i wanna say my opinions i will

  18. #18 by lyrical2008 on July 17th, 2009

    If you understand then you should know how it feels not to have anyone to talk to. Just to know that theres people out there going through the same thing is enough to make this something good and a positive, and plus and i don’t see anyone saying negative things on here apart from you.

  19. #19 by jackbornin1992 on July 17th, 2009

    i dont have anyone to talk to except my counsellor.i go to college have no friends,so icertainly do understand bout being alone!
    ok perhaps you can get confidence knowing ur not alone but it doesnt stop there. you carry on using the site, ull make friends but the neagativity is another problem on top of the problem. im not being negativ btw. im just saying how you can lose the negativity of the net by getting out there and challenging the sa instead of bitching about it on your computer!

  20. #20 by jackbornin1992 on July 17th, 2009

    ok im sorry if ive offended anybody and im sorry if ive come across as arrogant but i do know how SA works. i also know that the way to challenge it is by going through with things you find scary and difficult to notice you can gain confidence and then new comfort zones.
    maybe my boost of confidence has given me a different outlook. i think i would have thought like you if i were in your shoes say 3 months ago. but one day youll know where im coming from.
    no offence intended

  21. #21 by Phyle9 on July 31st, 2009

    That was very brave of you to tell the story.
    I guess that was good therapy telling it. Well done!

    I have about the same issues…

  22. #22 by jotunPIKK on August 2nd, 2009

    I agree with your points, but you have to understand the “why”. I do not think most of us watch these videos as therapy, its more of a….self pity-ish reason.

    I know that when i watch these videos I will feel worse, I also know that when I get drunk alone, it will certainly not lead to a better place. Sometimes you want to pity yourself and you want to sink into a hole, so you talk to someone with the same problems, or watch these videos ect.

    I do group therapy, and its great! But sometimes..

  23. #23 by funfun4mee on August 11th, 2009

    I feel your pain!
    Im so shy in school, I have always been. Im nervous about starting high school, and one time this loser made fun of me for being quiet. It was horrible, I cried so hard, it makes me cry talking about it. So to all those btches who hate the quiet ones, you suck! And I so hate it when people stare

  24. #24 by pimpthemhos on August 16th, 2009

    i feel lonely

  25. #25 by 101kyuniex on August 19th, 2009

    I understand people have social anxiety. my heart start rapid beating and my voice are getting into shake and my body comes to follow. and usually happens when someone calls my name and read book in front of my klsm8s. I want to control my feeling, but I cant. It usually happens every time. Im a kind of person that can be resposible and willing to learn and have good intention in life. This is my biggest problem. Hope we have chance to overcome this.

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