Social Anxiety: My Story Pt. 2


When did it begin? What kinds of people trigger it most? Reasons for the SAD? Biggest ANTs

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  1. #1 by MMOchamp9 on July 18th, 2009

    mines in flaring up. im in college and like i said in the other comments its not a typically anxiety.

    i thought going to a different college would get rid of it. I can’t really kill myself cuz my mom and sister love me so that’s not an option.

  2. #2 by RealXIII on July 18th, 2009

    you look like Megan Fox in some angles.

  3. #3 by maritkaaaaaaaaaa on July 24th, 2009

    to me: the silence, it’s the worst to me ;(

  4. #4 by tj2cute4u76 on July 25th, 2009

    my problem is feelin like i always have to prove something to everyone around me. Like i gotta be a certain way for someone to like.

    im so happy u made these videos girl. i thought pretty people didn’t have SAD. && im not even trying to be funny

  5. #5 by tj2cute4u76 on July 25th, 2009

    O mi gosh, i have 2 older sisters, && im used to relying on them too. we have so much in common

  6. #6 by Randomstuffs261 on August 7th, 2009

    i got s.a.d and my main problem is that i feel i have to be as nice as possible, which means hating myself to love others

  7. #7 by sammacs2002 on August 7th, 2009

    I have this also. I’m 30 years old. Its been very rough. My mom passed away when I was 11. I was always shy i think but i really noticed it when i was 12 or 13. i can’t keep a relationship. God help me.

  8. #8 by OGjayrelly on August 8th, 2009

    I think the part where you are placed in a new environment a is big reason for SAD. Especially when there is a predominant race all around you and you stand out like a sore thumb. Started with me in junior high as well. I’m half korean and half caucasian and I went to an all black school. Like the only one not black in the whole classroom. I moved from FL to GA going to 4th grade. It was shocking to me as a child being put in that situation. Kids made fun of me but it wasn’t that bad. (cont)

  9. #9 by OGjayrelly on August 8th, 2009

    I went to two different elementary schools that were predominently black so I did make a lot of friends. It started getting rough in junior high though. I knew a lot of people in 7th grade because of the two elementary schools I went too but when I got to 8th grade everyone I made friends with abandoned me because of my race. All of the sudden my race was a big issue. I would be made fun of in class and the teacher wouldn’t do anything. That crushed me. (cont)

  10. #10 by OGjayrelly on August 8th, 2009

    I don’t blame them because that is just human nature. I might have done the same thing if I was in there place because I had no guidance growing up because of constant divorce. Unfortunately I took the drug route 2escape and being the rebellious kid. That was the only way I knew how to make “friends.” I thank u for posting your story because I think it helps us all when we share stories. I do thank Jesus for bringing me out of all that, w/o Him I probably would be dead on the street somewhere.

  11. #11 by multi11k on August 10th, 2009

    wow you described how i feel i also was dealing with it as i was going to high school and no i didnt eat in the bathroom but i ate in the libary and i no longer get intimidated by eye contact and i have confidence in talking to people now more than ever but i do get intimidated by a group of popular kids especially if im not with my friends and thats weird cuz i was the youngest child and was spoiled but before thier was constant worry of what others thought and how i could impress them.

  12. #12 by BitchesCallMeTFree on August 15th, 2009

    You speak korean. That’s so cool!

  13. #13 by BitchesCallMeTFree on August 15th, 2009

    Sorry, duh! You’re “JaneyFromKOREA”. Of course you speak Korean.

  14. #14 by mynameisjennaaa on August 15th, 2009

    i hate having social anxiety, its even keeping me from having a job, and i hate school the most, im tense all day and get dehydrated for some reason =/

  15. #15 by JaneyfromKorea on August 15th, 2009

    SA kept me from working for years and years, I now work :)

    P.S. Stay hydrated~!

  16. #16 by mynameisjennaaa on August 15th, 2009

    lol, how did you get over it? and what was your first job? im trying to find a job with minimal social =/
    i also hate anxiety because i blush uncontrollably, it really sucks

  17. #17 by JeffJVids on August 22nd, 2009

    At the end, you said your going to cut it off. My imagination is going crazy with ideas about what you’re cutting off.

  18. #18 by bexsullie on August 24th, 2009

    my SAD mostly branches from fear of being sick infront of others or being trapped in a social situation. i used to be so afraid of being sick infront of people at school that i would sometimes not eat for weeks on end during lunch. my junior year i tried to overcome it by forcing myself to eat as much as i possibly could without feeling completely ill which would sometimes result in haveing a panic attack in the class after because i was so afraid i would get sick. (cont)

  19. #19 by bexsullie on August 24th, 2009

    then i would start to panic because i thought people would notice my attack and it would all spiral out of control. whenever im stuck in class and afraid that what people would think if i went to the nurse or the bathroom. the nurse at school would never understand and always send me back to class but im very lucky to have a counsler that would talk to me and settle me down. thanks for letting me ramble and sharing your story. it helps:)

  20. #20 by declanring on August 24th, 2009

    What i want to change is the inferiority complex i have about myself. That people won’t like me even though the evidence is alway to the contrary. I moved life 5 yrs ago when i left england and moved to America. I find myself now with few friends as opposed to the big group i had in England and its tough, but whats worthwhile that isn’t tough right. Your video’s really helped me to relate to my own story… Thanks Janeyx

  21. #21 by ettolrahcieh on August 24th, 2009

    i can relate to many of the things u say here. but when i get really nervous i dont speak because i am nervous what people going to think of me :S how did u get over it ? i have tryed many things ,and even though i get a little better ,it never goes all away.

  22. #22 by freestylee19 on August 25th, 2009

    the silence, the awkwardness, the emty feeling is the worst, feeling others juding me and see what I fear I am, just a person not worth knowing,

    Its so part of my life, I no longer can imagine living w/o it. in a weird way itsmy comfort zone. oh my, its so hard to change and get some true self confidence..

  23. #23 by waterdropJC on August 25th, 2009

    true

  24. #24 by loverofbeats on August 27th, 2009

    you are very beautiful

  25. #25 by loverofbeats on August 27th, 2009

    i agree, i moved from Russia to US when I was 13, still having a hard time to connect with people and make friends. My anxiety is the biggest impediment on my social life.

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