Social Anxiety – How I Met My Wife and Dating Experiences


A few people have asked me how I met my wife. I also talk about other dating experiences

advice, anxiety, Community, Confidence, dating, Depression, Esteem, Flirting, health, Insomnia, mental, Paranoia, phobia, Sad, Self, shy, social

  1. #1 by BadYahweh on November 11th, 2008

    Thanks for the ideas. While probably not the best or the most original idea, I don’t think cinema is such a bad idea for a first date though, so long as you have the opportunity to spend time after the movie as well. The movie can give you something to talk about, or at least a starting place.

  2. #2 by DoodleDozer on November 23rd, 2008

    Thanks for posting this.

  3. #3 by deandavo on February 26th, 2009

    Nice tips on the evening classes, I never really thought of things like that. I actually wouldn’t mind speed dating personally, but I’d be terrified to be face to face with someone trying to make conversation.

    Thanks again for the video.

  4. #4 by kimtodastone on December 8th, 2009

    I met a girl drunk at a festival and she told me i was the most laid back person she had ever mett. I really enjoyed hearing that because in sober state I’m an anxius peson. the next day after getting drunk, i again managed to project myself as “mr cool”.some time later i met her sober, and she could tell that i was a compleatly different person.

  5. #5 by Danny77uk on January 5th, 2010

    Hey I suffer from SA. I’m 28 and never had a gf. In fact I can barely look in a girl’s direction nevermind ask one it. It’s an impossible task. It honestly seems more likely that I would sprout wings and fly.

    That said the whole ‘evening class’ thing DOESN’T WORK. You end up doing something you don’t want to do, meeting people you’re not interested in meeting all on the off-chance that you might meet someone you like and that is reflected by your body language.

  6. #6 by capricious71 on January 31st, 2010

    A really good tip for conversation I use is remembering the acronym:

    H – hobbies
    E – entertainment
    L – literature
    P – politics

    and focus on the other person.

    All this works for me. This isn’t where my SA lies, though, rather in finding a partner. I seem to judge people too quickly.

  7. #7 by MyPenis13inchGirlFit on April 18th, 2010

    what is this dating/sexing site? Did you fuck real yet?

  1. No trackbacks yet.

Comments are closed.

Powered by Yahoo! Answers